How much money should you gift at a Croatian wedding?

Wedding season in Croatia is just around the corner, and with it comes the question that many guests dread—how much money should you give as a gift?

In Croatia, it is customary to give money to newlyweds instead of physical presents, and like all things, the expected amount has been rising in recent years.

A recent discussion on Reddit has reignited the debate, with Croatians sharing their thoughts on the ideal amount to put in the envelope, Večernji list writes.

The idea of giving money is to help cover the cost of their meal and contribute to their future together. However, with rising costs, the question remains—how much is enough?

One Reddit user sparked a discussion by asking how much money is appropriate to gift at a wedding. She explained that she and her partner had been giving €100 per person in the past but were told that this might not be sufficient.

Since she was attending a wedding of a close friend, she wanted to know what amount would be appropriate without going overboard.

What do Croatians say?

Many users weighed in on the discussion, with one comment receiving the most support stating that €300 for a close friend is a reasonable amount.

Another user pointed out that while some venues charge over €100 per person for a meal, it should not be expected that guests fully cover the cost of the wedding.

One commenter from Šibenik noted that the cost per guest at a wedding in the area is around €120, but this varies depending on the location. Some places have lower prices, while others can be significantly more expensive.

The General Consensus

While opinions differ, most agree on a few key points:

€100–€150 per person is a standard gift for acquaintances and distant friends.

€200–€300 per person is considered appropriate for close friends.

Higher amounts are expected from family members and wedding witnesses (kumovi).

Ultimately, the decision depends on the guest’s relationship with the couple and obviously personal financial situation.

While the amount given should be generous, it should also be reasonable for the guest.